Come See Me

Ready for a unique, intimate BDSM experience with a premier Bay Area Mistress?


The most efficient way to book is to use my contact form or to email me at


You may also call my receptionist at 510-975-6576 Tuesday through Sunday between 10 am and 10 pm.

My donations currently begin at 350 an hour. If you are a talented visual or sculptural artist, I am sometimes open to accepting partial tribute in form of unique works of art. 

For new clients I require a deposit, made electronically or via money order to reserve the time and space. 

I prefer to book at least three days in advance with new clients. 

If you are interested in online or public sessions, please specify as my rates are lower for virtual play and higher for public play. 

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No sex or sexual services are offered or implied. Sessions do not include any illegal activities and consist only of safe and consensual activities. Legal Notice: With reference to California Penal Code section 647(b) and CALCRIM Nos. 1153 to 1155, the services discussed herein do not in any way include or relate to either (1) engagement in any lewd act for money or other consideration, or (2) solicitation, offer, or agreement to engage in any lewd act for money or other consideration      BDSM Mistress     San Francisco Dominatrix Oakland BDSM