Activities and Fantasies


These are some of my favorite expressions of BDSM. If you want to do something not listed, it is very likely I will be happy to oblige you. Just ask me. I do not, however, offer sex. 

  • ALL Role Play, especially Goddess, blackmail and hypnotism fantasy

  • Transgressive or bizarre scenes, such as incest, reverse impregnation or cannibalism

  • ALL types of Humiliation, especially race play, bimbo-fication and slut training

  • ABDL and Age Play

  • Cuckold Fantasy

  • Hot Mommy, Hot Wife... I am HOT!

  • Chastity Play and Sounding (please bring your own sounding devices)

  • Tight and Predicament Bondage

  • OTK Spanking

  • Sensual Sessions, especially Tease and Denial, Edging, Ass Worship and Foot Worship

  • ALL CBT, light to ball-busting

  • Breath Play

  • Smoking and Ashtray

  • Food Play

  • Needle Play

  • Water Torture such as Water Boarding 

...And you tell me. Email me about your fetishes. I love exploring my sexuality and pushing boundaries, both yours and my own. Don’t hesitate to propose the strange, specific or taboo-- I’ll probably love it! I am extremely experienced with almost all forms of BDSM play. 


I also enjoy switching and submitting for certain activities with responsible play partners. 

I love playing with people of all genders and experience levels, couples and other mistresses.

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No sex or sexual services are offered or implied. Sessions do not include any illegal activities and consist only of safe and consensual activities. Legal Notice: With reference to California Penal Code section 647(b) and CALCRIM Nos. 1153 to 1155, the services discussed herein do not in any way include or relate to either (1) engagement in any lewd act for money or other consideration, or (2) solicitation, offer, or agreement to engage in any lewd act for money or other consideration      BDSM Mistress     San Francisco Dominatrix Oakland BDSM